I cannot believe that ten years ago today, B and I tied the knot in Sonoma on a beautiful, balmy fall afternoon. I remember the warm breeze as we said our vows under an ancient oak tree and hearing geese call out as they flew overhead during the ceremony.
It was an incredible day filled with friends and family from near and far. Great Aunt Eva and Uncle Reuben's cake topper from the 40's graced our cake, and there was champagne and salsa dancing late into the night.
Someone once told me that, like a garden, every relationship needs care and feeding. Today we're retreating to one of our favorite places to walk in nature and remind ourselves of these hopes and wishes, shared by our dear friend Victoria (aka "Fearless") as she married us:
Blessed be this union with...
the gifts of the East:
Communication of the heart, mind, and body. Fresh beginnings
with the rising of each Sun.
the gifts of the South:
Warmth of hearth and home, the heat of the heart's
passion, the light created by both to lighten the darkest of times.
the gifts of the West:
The deep commitments of the lake, the swift excitement of the
river, the refreshing cleansing of the rain, the all encompassing passion of
the sea.
the gifts of the North:
Firm foundation on which to build, a stable home to which you
may always return.
These years have been such a gift. I am so very grateful that you came to my door, Pepo. I love you madly.
